As we decorated the house for Christmas today, we looked out the window and saw that big white snowflakes were falling. It was a magical moment. Here in North Carolina we don't get that much snow and being a native of Southern California, it is twice as exciting whenever the white stuff begins to fall. I began yelling for my mother to come see. She didn't understand. She hustled over to the kitchen counter thinking that it was time for lunch.
"No Mom. It's snowing," I yelled excitedly. "Look outside!"
Mom nodded and continued to sit at the counter looking for her plate.
It took a while for her to comprehend. There was just too much distracting her, but eventually she went to the window and looked outside. Like a child she smiled a big smile and exclaimed, "Oh look! It's snowing outside."
"Yes! That's what I was trying to tell you." I showed her how the ground was turning white. Mom began singing, 'It's raining it's pouring, the old man is snoring...'
"No, no...it's snowing," I corrected.
Mom continued to sing her song though. She was stuck in the raining/pouring loop. Five minutes later she asked me, "Is it snowing outside?"
"Why YES! Look at that!" I remarked. (Sometimes I just enter her world.
It's easier than saying 'I know...I told you that before'.)
I turned on some Christmas music and began to sing along. Skip made some cinnamon coffee and the spirit of Christmas filled the air. Mom parked herself in the hallway as I began to decorate the tree. She seemed to understand that something different was happening and I asked her if she knew what time of year it was. She thought for a while and then, miraculously announced "It's Christmas!" Then I encouraged her to sing along with the Christmas songs but again she took up the Raining/Pouring refrain.
A few minutes later a friend dropped by and Mom began singing her song to my friend. She was smiling with excitement as she pointed outside. I had my own song I sang in my head.
'It sleeting and snowing;
but Mom isn't knowing.
She doesn't know rain from snow,
But my oh my she's glowing!'
When my friend left I thought that I might try one more time. "Hey Mom. You know the song 'White Christmas'?"
Mom blinked at me, so I sang a few bars to remind her. I figured it would help her understand that it was snowing outside. She remained silent so I said something about the growing blanket of white. The rooftops were beginning to hold the snow as well as the grass and trees. What a visual treat! "Mom, look!" I walked her to the front window. She looked out in amazement. A big smile lit up her face. "Look! It's snowing outside," she told me. Then, as if I hadn't heard it before she began to sing...well, you know: "It's raining it's pouring..."
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